Busting Top Bondage Myths for Your Own Good

Even after the success of the movie 50 Shades of Grey, bondage has not been able to lose its taboo character. But, why should it lose its taboo character? It involves a lot of stuff, that is far from normal for the majority of people; and even if you are into bondage, you cannot consume everything that it offers as it is. You need a good amount of practice, safety and passion to pull off an act of bondage with your partner successfully. Nevertheless, if you are into bondage, you need to read this. We are busting some myths that surround the fetish and we want you to listen.
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You can Either be Submissive or be Dominant: A lot of people think that being submissive or being dominant is the only option they have in the bondage relationship. The truth is you can be both in the same night. You can start off as a dominant and degrade, humiliate, kick and make your partner kiss your ass; and while they are in the act, you can suddenly transfer the power to them and go down on your knees and start worshipping their feet. It all depends on how dynamic a personality do you carry in a relationship.

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BDSM is only Enjoyable If You have a Fetish: A fetish adds fun to the act of BDSM, however, it is not a requirement. Bondage makes you happy in a different way than a fetish. A fetish satisfies your need to have a certain experience, while in using Pleasureplayz cheap adult toys &  bondage, you get the rush from the fact that you are put in charge of the situation. Bondage is practiced by several couples in their bedroom and if there is anything that we can establish from this fact is another fact that bondage does not require you to have a fetish. However, if you have a fetish, be open about it. It will add to the fun of BDSM.

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Bondage is About Being Cruel:  Well, it involves a certain level of violence but it is not exactly cruelty. First, the people involved in the act have stated their consent to be in a certain situation or position; and second, it involves passionately sexy moves that turn on both the parties. The only cruelty it should involve is denying a sexual release or ruining an orgasm. Other than that, humiliation, whipping, tickling, ball busting, worshipping, trampling, slapping, spanking and everything else should happen with consent, in the presence of a safe word, and it should bring mutual happiness.

Bondage does not Involve Sex Toys: Well, no one has yet written down the rules of bondage and thus using or not using sex toys is a matter of personal choice. We recommend involving the best male sex toys like masturbators and female sex toys like vibrators only after you two have fully understood how these will be used and how to instruct each other to stop using them.

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